By Colton Parrett
Let’s get brutally honest.
You're in a relationship. You love your partner. And maybe you’re thinking about making adult films, or you’re already doing it—but with full consent from your partner. You both talk about it, you set boundaries, you check in emotionally. You’re being respectful. So you wonder:
“If I’m okay with it, and my partner is too… does God really care?”
“Would this actually send me to hell?”
Let’s break this all the way down—honestly, biblically, and without sugarcoating the truth.
✝️ First things first: Does making porn send someone to hell?
No—not by itself.
What keeps someone from heaven isn’t porn, sex, or even moral failure. It’s rejecting God’s grace and refusing to have a relationship with Him.
“Whoever believes in Him is not condemned, but whoever does not believe stands condemned already…”
— John 3:18 (NIV)
If you’re still walking with God—even if you’re struggling, even if you’re doing things that aren’t aligned with His design—you are still covered by grace.
💥 But now here’s the harder truth…
Making pornography—even with full consent—is not God’s design for love, sex, or your body. It’s likely sinful, even if it doesn’t feel that way in the moment.
Let’s look at why.
📖 A Boatload of Bible Verses
🚫 1. Sex is meant to be sacred, not public.
“Marriage should be honored by all, and the marriage bed kept pure…”
— Hebrews 13:4 (NIV)
“The two will become one flesh.”
— Genesis 2:24, Ephesians 5:31
Porn turns something meant to be private and holy into something consumed by strangers.
🧠 2. Just because it feels okay doesn’t mean it is okay.
“There is a way that appears to be right, but in the end it leads to death.”
— Proverbs 14:12 (NIV)
“The heart is deceitful above all things and beyond cure. Who can understand it?”
— Jeremiah 17:9 (NIV)
Our feelings aren’t the final authority—God’s Word is. That includes our sex life.
💔 3. God calls us to sexual holiness—for our good.
“Flee from sexual immorality. All other sins a person commits are outside the body, but whoever sins sexually sins against their own body.”
— 1 Corinthians 6:18 (NIV)
“It is God’s will that you should be sanctified: that you should avoid sexual immorality.”
— 1 Thessalonians 4:3 (NIV)
Sex isn’t just physical—it’s deeply emotional and spiritual. When we treat it casually or publicly, we risk damaging something God made to be beautiful and bonding.
💻 4. Porn hurts people—even if it seems victimless.
“Do nothing out of selfish ambition or vain conceit. Rather, in humility value others above yourselves.”
— Philippians 2:3 (NIV)
“Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth.”
— 1 Corinthians 13:6 (NIV)
Porn often leads to exploitation, addiction, and broken relationships. Even when it’s “ethical” on the surface, it normalizes a culture that sees bodies as entertainment, not sacred.
🙏 5. God offers grace—but He also calls us to grow.
“Shall we go on sinning so that grace may increase? By no means! We are those who have died to sin—how can we live in it any longer?”
— Romans 6:1–2 (NIV)
“Be holy, because I am holy.”
— 1 Peter 1:16 (NIV)
God doesn’t call us to shame or perfection. He calls us to transformation. Grace meets you where you are—but it never leaves you there.
❤️ So… what if I’ve already done it?
You’re not disqualified.
You’re not dirty.
You’re not condemned.
“If we confess our sins, He is faithful and just and will forgive us and purify us from all unrighteousness.”
— 1 John 1:9 (NIV)
God’s not asking for a spotless past—He’s asking for an open heart.
🔥 Final Answer:
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Will making porn send you to hell?
→ Not if you’re still in relationship with Jesus and haven’t rejected His grace. -
Is making porn sinful—even with consent and open communication?
→ Yes. It’s outside of God’s design for sexuality, intimacy, and covenant love. -
Does that mean you’re hopeless or rejected?
→ Absolutely not. You’re loved, and you can grow in grace starting now.
God’s not looking for you to be perfect.
He’s just looking for you to stay close. And if you’re still talking to Him—even through the mess—you’re already on the right path.
— Colton Parrett
Christian blogger, believer in raw prayers, and living proof that God hears people even when they’re a mess.
Let me know if you want the next blog post to dig into something like masturbation, monogamy, or the difference between shame and conviction. I’ll keep it real. Always.
You said:
ChatGPT said:
Here’s the honest, clear, no-fluff answer based on everything we've talked about, Colton:
❗ No—making porn, even if you keep doing it, does not automatically send you to hell.
The Bible is very clear on this:
What sends someone to hell is not committing a specific sin over and over—it’s rejecting God's grace and refusing a relationship with Him.
📖 Let's back that up with truth:
“Whoever believes in Him is not condemned…”
— John 3:18 (NIV)
“It is by grace you have been saved, through faith—and this is not from yourselves, it is the gift of God—not by works, so that no one can boast.”
— Ephesians 2:8–9 (NIV)
Salvation isn’t revoked every time you mess up. It's not based on perfect sexual behavior. It's based on your faith in Jesus and relationship with Him.
💡 But now the honest part:
If you keep making porn and feel zero conviction, and you push God away when He tries to speak to you about it… that’s a red flag—not because of the porn itself, but because of a hardened heart.
God’s grace covers your sin, but grace isn’t a license to ignore Him.
“If we deliberately keep on sinning after we have received the knowledge of the truth, no sacrifice for sins is left...”
— Hebrews 10:26 (NIV)
This verse isn't about slipping or struggling—it's about someone who flat-out says, "I know what God says, and I don't care anymore." That’s what puts someone in danger—not porn, but rebellion.
✅ Final answer:
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Making porn = sinful? → Yes (biblically speaking).
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Still doing it over time = unforgivable? → No. Not unless you shut God out.
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Will it send you to hell? → Only if you reject God's grace and walk away from Him completely.
As long as you’re still walking with Jesus—even stumbling—you are not condemned.
“Therefore, there is now no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus.”
— Romans 8:1 (NIV)
Let me know if you want this written into a mini blog post too, or added as a follow-up at the bottom of the last one.
You said:
ChatGPT said:
Absolutely, Colton. Here’s the updated full blog post titled “Will Making Porn Keep Me from Heaven If I’m Okay With It?” now expanded to include what happens if you keep making porn—plus a second boatload of Bible verses to drive the truth home.
Will Making Porn Keep Me from Heaven If I’m Okay With It?
By Colton Parrett
Let’s get brutally honest.
You're in a relationship. You and your partner love each other. Maybe you’re already making adult content together—or want to. You check in, communicate, and have boundaries. So you wonder:
“If I’m okay with it, and my partner is too… does God really care?”
“Would this actually send me to hell?”
“What if I keep making porn—will that do it?”
Let’s break it down with the one thing this blog promises every time: truth.
💭 Can making porn send me to hell?
No—not by itself.
What keeps someone from heaven is not a specific sin—it’s rejecting God’s grace and refusing a relationship with Him.
“Whoever believes in Him is not condemned, but whoever does not believe stands condemned already…”
— John 3:18 (NIV)
If you’re still walking with God—even if you struggle, even if you fall—you are still covered by grace.
🧨 But if I keep making porn and feel okay with it—then what?
That’s where the deeper spiritual check-in needs to happen.
Let’s be clear:
You’re not in danger because you sinned. You’re in danger if you reach a place where you stop caring what God says.
That’s called hardening your heart. It’s the “I’m going to do what I want no matter what” attitude that cuts people off from God—not the actual act of sin itself.
📖 Let’s back this up with a second boatload of Scripture:
“There is now no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus.”
— Romans 8:1 (NIV)
“If we confess our sins, He is faithful and just and will forgive us and purify us…”
— 1 John 1:9 (NIV)
“Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest.”
— Matthew 11:28 (NIV)
These verses scream one thing: You are still welcome. You are still loved. God still wants you.
😬 But there’s also this:
“If we deliberately keep on sinning after we have received the knowledge of the truth, no sacrifice for sins is left.”
— Hebrews 10:26 (NIV)
“Do not be deceived: God cannot be mocked. A man reaps what he sows.”
— Galatians 6:7 (NIV)
“They are darkened in their understanding and separated from the life of God because of the ignorance that is in them due to the hardening of their hearts.”
— Ephesians 4:18 (NIV)
Those verses don’t say you lose salvation by failing.
They say you walk away from God by refusing to hear Him.
📸 So is making porn sinful—even with consent?
Yes. Biblically, sex is meant to be:
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Sacred (Hebrews 13:4)
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Exclusive (Genesis 2:24)
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Reflective of covenant love (Ephesians 5:25)
Porn—no matter how professional or respectful—turns something meant to be holy into a commodity. That doesn’t make you worthless—it means the act is misaligned with God’s design.
“Flee from sexual immorality…”
— 1 Corinthians 6:18 (NIV)
“It is God’s will that you should be sanctified: that you should avoid sexual immorality.”
— 1 Thessalonians 4:3 (NIV)
🙏 So… what do I do if I’m already doing it and don’t plan to stop yet?
Be honest with God. Talk to Him. Keep your heart open.
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Don’t hide.
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Don’t fake holiness.
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Don’t let shame push you away from Him.
“The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit.”
— Psalm 34:18 (NIV)
He’d rather you come to Him struggling than avoid Him pretending.
🔥 Final Answer:
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Making porn won’t send you to hell as long as your heart stays open to God’s grace.
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If you ever get to the point where you say, “God, I’m done listening to You”—that’s where the danger begins.
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As long as you’re still seeking Him—even in the middle of the mess—you’re not condemned.
Grace is for the honest. Heaven is for the forgiven. And God walks with people who are still figuring it out.
— Colton Parrett
Christian blogger, believer in raw prayers, and living proof that God hears people even when they’re a mess.
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